I don't want all that 4way and 5way crap. looking for a simple 3way 6x9
that
can handle at least 70W rms.

Lots of people in here seem to like Infinity and JBL. I wouldn't put myself
in that category.

For coaxials, I've always been impressed with CDT (not sure what they're
putting out nowadays, or even if they have 6x9's) and the older Polk
coaxials (see if you can find some MM-series coaxials on ebay). Those are
both 2-ways though I think.